For Couples
Ceremony as clarity.
Commitment as design.
Love as a system built to last.
Best Value
Ceremony Ready — Baseline
495
Finalized vows draft; Relationship Agreement; ceremony outline for officiant (no officiant service)
Valid for 12 months
Coaching & Ceremony Officiant
3,000
Final ceremony script (ready to read); Relationship Agreement; rehearsal facilitation (45–75 min in person or virtual); officiant ceremony coordination
Valid for 12 months
Dene is an ordained minister and certified coach who offers officiant services for couples seeking a ceremony that is intentional, well-structured, and aligned with their values. This service provides a carefully designed milestone—crafted to reflect the clarity of your commitment and the future you’re building together.
With a background in somatic practice, trauma-informed facilitation, and strategic container design, Dene brings presence, precision, and professionalism to every ceremony. Whether minimalist or highly customized, your wedding or commitment ceremony will be held with care, clarity, and integrity.
What It Can Include
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Custom relationship agreement for your style of partnership
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Custom ceremony script design based on your values, story, and shared vision
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Pre-ceremony strategy session to clarify vows, boundaries, and tone
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Pacing and structure informed by nervous system awareness and guest experience
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Optional guided moment of intention, reflection, or grounding for the couple and guests
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Legal officiation and documentation (travel available upon request)
Ceremony Philosophy
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Every ceremony is a structured container—it must be clear and purposeful
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Vows are commitments, not performances—they are crafted with intention
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Guests are not spectators—they are witnesses to a shared commitment
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Commitment is a strategic act—it deserves clarity and design
Who This Is For
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Couples who want a facilitated relationship agreement to define their commitment to each other
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Couples who want a ceremony that reflects their values—not just tradition
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Heart-led partnerships built on mutual clarity, respect, and shared purpose
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Those ready to mark their union with intention, structure, and meaning
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Open to non-traditional relationships (e.g., monogamous, queer, open, polyamorous, virtual, or other partnership)
Who This Is Not For
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Couples navigating unresolved conflict or relational instability
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Partnerships seeking reconciliation, repair, or therapeutic support
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Business partnerships that need legal advice or a legally binding agreement
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Those looking for a performative or religiously scripted ceremony
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Clients unwilling to engage in a clear, structured planning process
Get in Touch
Please fill out this form if you have questions before purchasing a service.
Couples' pre-ceremony coaching sessions are held virtually or at the Belfast Center.
Wedding officiant services are available at your location.
Availability is limited.
Travel and lodging fees apply for areas outside Mid-Coast Maine.